Maria Arsenijevich saw a flash of fur poking out of a yellow plastic tub. At first she thought it was a toy. There's was no sound, no movement. It couldn't be alive. It had to be a stuffed animal.
She was sitting in the family room at the back of a "humongous" Lincoln Park home early last March. The crew of two workers from her company, Clearing Chaos — don't call them "cleaners," they are professional organizers who specialize in decluttering and dealing with hoarders — were separating the possessions of a tenant being kicked out of her rental home. Boxes and cartons were piled 6 feet tall. Piles of junk. They were two hours into a seven-day job.
The tenant was a doctor, Anita Damodaran, 38, a pediatric physician with two young children.
"Very charming," said Arsenijevich. "A very nice lady. Hoarders are usually extremely intelligent and very nice."
DamodaranDamordaran was helpful, assisting the Clearing Chaos workers, pointing out which possessions were hers and should be shipped to Florida, where she was moving. What should be donated, what thrown away. Even doing some of the work herself.
"She took this whole tower of crates and held on to a black and yellow one and was dragging it to the door to get it outside to the deck," said Arsenijevich. "I turned around to see what she was doing and saw a furry something poking out from below the yellow lid. I thought, 'It's a stuffed animal, bursting out. Because there are too many of them in the tub.' There was never any noise. No whimpering, no barking. She goes a little farther, and now I'm seeing three-quarters of a face. I wasn't sure it was a face — one side was matted with fur. The dog was popping its head out of the tub. The top was raising. I was fixated on the dog.
"My brain was saying, 'That's a stuffed animal.' I'm staring at this thing, and my mind's going, 'Something's not right here.'"
What was not right here was that Betty, a Portuguese water dog, had been confined to that plastic tub, a veterinarian later estimated, for about a month. Her weight had fallen from about 40 to 19 pounds. She was near death.
Damodaran dragged the box away. That had to be a toy, Arsenijevich told herself, again.
Then her assistant started to scream.
"Oh my God, oh my God!" one of her crew yelled. "It's a dog! It's a dog! It's alive!"
Arsenijevich raced over.
"I thought it was a standard poodle. Just sitting in the crate, its legs in front, very rigid, like a statue," she said. "No movement."
She started barking orders at her crew. One — who didn't want to use her name — was sent to the kitchen to get water. Arsenijevich called MedVet, the emergency animal hospital at Belmont and California. They told her to find a blanket and use it as a stretcher.
And Damodaran?
She was sitting in the family room at the back of a "humongous" Lincoln Park home early last March. The crew of two workers from her company, Clearing Chaos — don't call them "cleaners," they are professional organizers who specialize in decluttering and dealing with hoarders — were separating the possessions of a tenant being kicked out of her rental home. Boxes and cartons were piled 6 feet tall. Piles of junk. They were two hours into a seven-day job.
The tenant was a doctor, Anita Damodaran, 38, a pediatric physician with two young children.
"Very charming," said Arsenijevich. "A very nice lady. Hoarders are usually extremely intelligent and very nice."
Damodaran
"She took this whole tower of crates and held on to a black and yellow one and was dragging it to the door to get it outside to the deck," said Arsenijevich. "I turned around to see what she was doing and saw a furry something poking out from below the yellow lid. I thought, 'It's a stuffed animal, bursting out. Because there are too many of them in the tub.' There was never any noise. No whimpering, no barking. She goes a little farther, and now I'm seeing three-quarters of a face. I wasn't sure it was a face — one side was matted with fur. The dog was popping its head out of the tub. The top was raising. I was fixated on the dog.
"My brain was saying, 'That's a stuffed animal.' I'm staring at this thing, and my mind's going, 'Something's not right here.'"
What was not right here was that Betty, a Portuguese water dog, had been confined to that plastic tub, a veterinarian later estimated, for about a month. Her weight had fallen from about 40 to 19 pounds. She was near death.
Damodaran dragged the box away. That had to be a toy, Arsenijevich told herself, again.
Then her assistant started to scream.
"Oh my God, oh my God!" one of her crew yelled. "It's a dog! It's a dog! It's alive!"
Arsenijevich raced over.
"I thought it was a standard poodle. Just sitting in the crate, its legs in front, very rigid, like a statue," she said. "No movement."
She started barking orders at her crew. One — who didn't want to use her name — was sent to the kitchen to get water. Arsenijevich called MedVet, the emergency animal hospital at Belmont and California. They told her to find a blanket and use it as a stretcher.
And Damodaran?
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Shocking!
ReplyDeleteMakes one wonder what kind of condition her children are in.
ReplyDeleteIt certainly made me wonder. I go into that on Friday.
DeleteMy sister is a hoarder pretty well to do has college-age kids still has their baby clothes and toys every box for everything that she's ever bought in her basement had a mouse infestation even though she has several cats hit a tear out the drywall and insulation it was soaked with urine the second floor is caving in from the way to things hard to go there but we do can't talk to her about it she is oblivious and the kids whacked
DeleteI hope we can expect some exculpatory evidence on Friday. Some people (myself included) shouldn't have pets. If you're never home, if your kids aren't old enough to take care of an animal, if your job is demanding and time consuming, get a stuffed animal---your kids will forgive you a lot sooner than a judge and jury.
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A lot of people have dogs and leave them home alone all day. Most are probably ok. We have had dogs and they were fine left home alone. One not so much when there were thunderstorms.
DeleteThey walk among us.
ReplyDeleteBeyond awful. Ignoring the dog’s pleas and to discard the dog like it was nothing.Her children have been taught lessons you can’t undo. Her patients, they too have been mistreated. What an awful thing.
ReplyDeleteWhat I find confusing is that a doctor could easily inject an overdose of some readily available drug, like insulin, and the problem is solved. Why would she, according to the allegations, intentionally inflict such pain on an animal? I look forward to hearing the rest of the story.
ReplyDeleteI was almost scared to finish the article, anticipating a sad outcome. Animal suffering just affects me deeply. Probably because they are so innocent and trusting, completely dependent on their owners to love and care for them. So very happy to see that beautiful little girl living her best life. I don't even know what to say about this "doctor," except I wish this would be grounds to remove her license.
ReplyDeleteChildren are "taught lessons" everyday that they reject. There are many abused children who choose to not abuse.
ReplyDeletemany times i wonder if we humans really do deserve dogs.
ReplyDeleteTo mistreat an innocent animal is the worst of human behavior
DeleteHorrible, but not even close...to the worst.
DeleteI disagree. There is definitely something wrong here, but cruelty to animals, as sick as it is, does not automatically indicate cruelty to humans. For the Betty White crowd out there, I recommend reading O'Henry's "The Theory and the Hound."
ReplyDeleteThere is a known nexus between animal abuse and physical abuse of humans. The notion that this person is also a physician compounds the horror; it is a shame that she will retain both her children and her medical license.
DeleteSaying there is a nexus is misdirection by half truth. Yes, sadists are more likely to commit animal abuse. But animal abuse is not necessarily symptomatic of sadism. I think this is a truism; some people are perfectly willing to dehumanize anyone outside of their ethnic group/religion/family, but are exemplary in their loving devotion to their own.
DeleteHoarding is a disease...best left to the shrinks. It’s causes are unclear, and it tends to get worse with age. All kinds of people are hoarders. Ask the man who knows. Guess you could label me one. It’s beyond the pack-rat stage. My basement is a mess. That’s being kind. So is the garage.
ReplyDeleteLast spring I finally cleaned out the spare bedroom, so guests could use it before and after the eclipse. The bed had been covered by several feet of books and newspapers and magazines and piles of files...folders stuffed with newspaper and magazine clippings that I cut out and squirreled away-- for decades. It had not been slept in for at least twenty years.
Grew up with dogs, mostly in my teens. My father loved them, as does my kid sister. Haven’t had one since the 70s, but have had feline companions for the last forty years. Animals and hoarding have to be a recipe for disaster. Have to wonder how many cats and dogs have been crushed or trapped by piles of stuff, and died agonizing deaths. Surely this has happened before.
This woman is clearly loco in the cabeza. Perhaps her divorce pushed her over the edge. Or the stresses of her medical career. Traumatic life events can lead to hoarding, according to the Mayo Clinic. But as an animal lover and pet owner, I’m horrified. How could have she not heard the dog? It must have barked, howled, or whined. Did she ignore that? How?
Or did she just “forget” she had an animal companion, in much the same way that people “forget” they have children, and leave them to fry in hot cars? She needs serious mental help while she’s locked up. For the safety of the kids, if nothing else. And no more animals for her. Ever. Florida is probably pretty lax about animal cruelty, as they are about so many other things. It will probably happen all over again.
I think your assessment is the most plausible one. Trauma of the divorce on top of a stressful career, probably some sort of demand avoidance. No excuse of course, I hope she bears the full consequences and it's a shame it's taking so long. Hopefully her kids are cared for properly.
DeleteGrizz, thank you for perspective. I was afraid to read the comments on this topic. Animal Cruelty is horrific and people react more strongly to animal cruelty than child abuse. (neither is ever acceptable!). But you are correct, this woman is ill, despite her obvious insight into the 'wrongness" of her behavior. Hoarding is considered a variant of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Very difficult to treat, and very difficult to even get them in to treatment, despite them having self-awareness. They very often keep their illness 'secret' and also keep it confined to their residence. This woman who knowingly abused her helpless dog might still have provided compassionate care to her pediatric patients. Its hard to comprehend the dichotomy, but possible, nonetheless, if she confined her disorder to her residence.
DeleteI'm so glad Betty got a 2nd, better, chance at life. And like you, I hope Betty's first owner is banned from owning a pet in the future.
Animal cruelty and neglect is rampant some people even people who love their pets mistreat them in a wide variety of ways. There are people who can't take care of themselves let alone but dependent animal or God forbid children..
ReplyDeleteAnimal cruelty affects me emotionally in an overwhelming way but nothing compares to child abuse and that is rampant too.
I understand people who dedicate their lives to helping strays donating money and time but there are children out there that need help and they should be our primary focus I understand it child abuse is not necessarily a component of the story but I've always focused on the health and welfare of children My own and complete strangers
There is no indication that the current administration takes people into consideration no matter their age or circumstance More concerned with the dollars rake them in for themselves and taking them away from everyone even the most vulnerable amongst us.
And these people call themselves Christians