Monday was a fine day — 80 degrees at O'Hare, a record for March 30 in Chicago, with hardly a cloud in the sky. I did not shuck my responsibilities, initially. In the morning, I made progress on the advance obituary of an alderman who was much more impressed with himself than history will be. A common enough failing and I tried to treat him with a certain mortuary tenderness. Plus, worked out a few of the knots in Wednesday's column.
But I didn't let work absorb my entire day. That would have been tragic. By noon I was heading to the park with a young lady of my acquaintance, accompanied by her parents, stopping first at Little Louie's for a char dog and a salad, eaten al fresco at a picnic table next to the playground, where dessert was pushing my houseguest on the baby swing, a new passion of hers, discovered yesterday.
Well, dessert was really a raspberry chocolate chip cone from Graeter's. But it wasn't as sweet as the swing time was. Then we walked toward the Basin.
Later in the day, we all headed to the Chicago Botanic Garden which, despite the fine weather, was not particularly crowded. My son met a school friend, and just listening to their conversation was a treat. Smart kids.
When evening came, and I had to think about today's post, I realized I had utterly nothing to say, about the political situation or anything else. I was pleased how easily it was all shucked. Not that it isn't important; it is. It just wasn't important today. As scary as the times are, it is good to be able to set them aside for a memorable afternoon. A luxury achieved by not being afraid of anyone or anything, and having resources and family and living in a good place. None of them were accidental, or even easy. None are permanent. But they're all here now, for a time, and I'm glad to be able to appreciate them while they are. What's the Crosby, Stills & Nash lyric? "It was a long time coming; it'll be a long time gone." Tuesday morning I'll have to get that column into final form and off to the public, like meat tossed into a river of piranha.
But that isn't so bad either. Monday's column on immigration drew a ton of feedback. I appreciated the praise, and gave the boggled outrage the attention it was due, which was far less consideration than I devoted to my job as a kiddie swing attendant. A man needs to have his priorities in order.

The beauty of lunching with old coworkers on a glorious day is something everyone should do at least once a spring/summer day. Totally enjoyable and memorable.
ReplyDeleteWatching and reading the news these days is like constantly monitoring the progress of a monster on the outskirts of the village. Thanks for the nice respite
ReplyDeleteGraeters has wonderful ice cream to eat on the village square.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you had such a lovely day. We stew in the horrors far more than is healthy, though it's difficult for some of us *not to stew. (I'm amazed by those who are blissfully unaware of pretty much everything.) Sunshine and first blooms and ice cream and a happy kiddo in a swing is quite the collective balm for the soul.
ReplyDeleteI am glad you are enjoying the onset of spring. A lovely time of year. And for birders a period full of surprises: a most unexpected burrowing owl showed up at Montrose this morning.
ReplyDeleteI have two grand daughters under the age of five and I can say without hesitation that spending a day with them is the most fun I've ever had in my life. We have to bear witness to what is going on with our beloved democracy, but still remember a basic rule of life - never punish yourself because someone else is an asshole.
ReplyDelete"never punish yourself because someone else is an asshole." Fantastic quote that I will try to live by. Thank you.
Deleteyes! yesterday was a much needed reprieve from so very much. I had to drive on Lake Shore Drive - people were in shorts and smiling. great day to be out and about. Spending the afternoon as you did is necessary. I'm glad you made the time for it, and for reminding us of of the importance of doing so.
ReplyDelete"Mortuary tenderness” is an exquisite phrase.
ReplyDeleteThanks Eric.
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ReplyDeletehow cute-I thing your granddaughter was in town
ReplyDeleteyou may have to move to D.C. when you retire
Glad you were able to enjoy the beautiful day. My wife bugged out of work a couple hours early. We day in our yard, sipped a little wine, didn't talk about the current state of affairs, and listened to the birds. It was wonderful.
ReplyDeleteAlso - guessing Ed Burke?
ReplyDeleteI've decided not to say. But that would make sense.
DeleteThat was my guess. Two years of incarceration probably didn't do much for his declining health. His police officer father was an alderman for 14 years, and Ed, also an ex-cop, held the same job for 54 years, a Chicago record.
DeleteHe will be 83 in December and must be approaching his date with the Iceman. And that's not the late Jerry Butler, either. Was Ed Burke the most corrupt of them all? There have been some real doozies over the years. The list of convicted Chicago alderpeople is a long one.
Pushing 80 degrees in Cleveland today, so Chicago's warmth has moved east. Grass will soon need mowing, and our forsythias and daffodils are coming out. The magnolia tree in our front yard is in bloom, and the white flowers are a welcome sight, after a long cold winter with many ups and downs, especially in March.
Chances are very good that another big chill will turn the white flowers a shriveled-up brown. That often happens when the tree flowers too early.
It's been a long time comin'
ReplyDeleteIt's goin' to be a long time gone
And it appears to be a long time
Such a long, long time before the dawn
When I retired about two months after I pretty much shut off the news. Best move I made. Life is wonderful, enjoy it. You may be doing more of that in the future, and you'll like it. And you certainly deserve it.
ReplyDeleteThat's a beautiful tulip. It will be a while before we see them in the U.P. Still several feet of snow on the ground and a winter storm watch for Thursday. But we wil appreciate them all the more when we finally do see them.
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