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Thursday, July 23, 2026

Flashback 1994: Keeping a last promise.

Michael Thurson before surgery (Photo by Robert A. Davis; used with permission)

     I had rotator cuff surgery Wednesday afternoon, and will have my left arm in a sling for about the next six weeks. As for EGD, it doesn't seem a good idea to park myself in front of the computer right away, even to give you good folks something diverting to read, pecked out with my right hand, or dictated, if I can make that work. 
     Luckily, I have both a deep bench, and the ability to plan ahead. We're going to be reading chestnuts mined from the archive for a few days, and then some of my media pals will pinch hit. My apologies but, heck, you get what you pay for. 
    Regarding today's topic, naturally I first thought of surgery. This is from the days when I worked with the great photographer Robert A. Davis. I still remember the shock of standing in that operating room, learning ... well, you'll see. As for the end, that was all Bob, going the extra mile, a practice that has taken him very far.

     Eloise Heatherly made a promise.
     A registered nurse at Wyler Children's Hospital, she became friends with Michael Thurson, a slight 15-year-old boy with cystic fibrosis, struggling to breathe and looking forward to a better life with a new set of lungs.
     We'll toast with champagne, Heatherly said, when you turn 16.
     Michael was a kid who needed a promise, a reason to look ahead.
     Dragging an oxygen bottle around St. Francis de Sales High
     School, lying on a board while his mother pounded his back to loosen the phlegm that was suffocating him, his average day wasn't a cakewalk.
     It was a long wait for lungs — at 4 feet 6 inches tall and 71 pounds, not many pairs would fit his narrow chest.
     He was already sick, taking treatments at Wyler, when lungs became available after an accident.
     Around midnight Jan. 29, Michael was awakened by a nurse who asked him what his greatest wish was.
     "I want to see Jordan," said the sleepy boy.
     The nurse told him that no, Michael Jordan wasn't here. But his new lungs were on the way.
     "One out of two ain't bad," he said.
     The operation did not go as smoothly as it could have. The lungs were caught in traffic.
     "Where are they now?" a surgeon asked. "Naperville," somebody holding a telephone replied. Two nurses gasped in unison: "Naperville!?!"
     "We probably opened the chest too soon," Dr. Alvaro Montoya said afterward. "We should have waited two more hours."
     But Michael survived the surgery. He clung to life for 10 days.
     "I'm going to wait until I heal, then work out a lot, so I can get better at basketball," he had said.
     Michael Thurson died Feb. 9 from complications following the surgery. He never got the chance to improve his basketball.
     When the news hit his school, students were so upset that classes were dismissed early. The basketball team, for whom Michael was a scorekeeper, wore black bands on their jerseys and headbands reading "Mikey" for the rest of the season.
     Saturday, Michael would have been 16. Heatherly kept her promise.
     Heatherly, Michael's mother, his sisters and a few friends gathered at his grave at Holy Cross Cemetery in Calumet City. They took birthday balloons, flowers and, yes, champagne, the good stuff.
     Michael would have loved it.
             — Originally published in the Sun-Times, May 30, 1994

9 comments:

  1. Harrowing and not where I thought it was going, though the title should have given me a clue. Still, I'm very glad to know about Michael Thurson and Eloise Heatherly. Thank you.

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  2. What percentage cystic fibrosis of double lung transplants survive?

    5 years out?

    10 years out?

    32 years out?

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    1. How sad for this kid and his parents.

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  3. You just take care of yourself, Mr. S. Hope you are right handed, if you had the left shoulder done.

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  4. Mary G. Weiss became a volunteer for the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation in 1965 after learning that her three little boys had CF. Her duty was to call every civic club, social, and service organization seeking financial support for the mission.

    Mary’s 4-year-old son, Richard (Ricky), listened closely to his mother as she made each call. After several calls, Richard told his mother, “I know what you are working for.” Mary was dumbstruck because Richard did not know what she was doing, nor did he know that he had cystic fibrosis.

    With some trepidation, Mary asked, “What am I working for, Ricky?”
    He answered, “You are working for 65 Roses.”

    Since 1965, the term “65 Roses” has been used by children of all ages to describe their disease. But, making it easier to say does not make CF any easier to live with each day. The horrible fact is that cystic fibrosis is a life-threatening genetic disease that affects more than 40,000 children and adults in the United States..

    The rose, appropriately the ancient symbol of love, has become a symbol of the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. The 65 Roses story is celebrated on June 5 (6/5) with 65 Roses Day. I learned about it at a White Sox game, at Old Comiskey,where there was a booth seeking donations to the cause. Can't recall the year...but the date was June 5..

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  5. nice post, Grizz

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    1. Confession...the data came from the CFF website. I'm having some health issues, too, this summer, and I'm not as on the ball as usual. Frankly, the last two months have been a summer from hell. If I were a praying man, I would pray for August and September to be better than June and July have been.

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  6. You'd think an ambulance or helicopter could have rushed that over. Today, he prob would have made it.

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  7. Mr. S, not sure you can answer this with the sling but did you get adequate care in Portugal at least after the fall?

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