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Sunday, September 7, 2025

Flashback 2006: Tokyo Rose, all over again

     My cousin Harry Roberts died of complications from kidney failure last week. You might remember me writing about his struggles. I will certainly be remembering him in the future — it's too soon now — but his loss got me thinking of what I've written about the illness over the years, and I found this. It ran back when the column filled a page, and I've kept the original headings, and the closing joke. Vasilios Gaitanos received a kidney transplant from his wife in 2007 and lived to 2021.
     The opening section refers to arrests that were being made of Muslim immigrants somehow implicated in the 9/11 plot and shipped to Guantanamo Bay, tortured, and kept there for years, often without any formal criminal charges, a dynamic we're repeating today.

OPENING SHOT

     Mastering the details is what makes you feel at home in a new place. When I moved to East Lake View, it was a sign I was settling in to learn that those distant pops heard Sunday mornings were the Lincoln Park Gun Club blasting away at clay pigeons. Or that the guy walking the black lab was William Kennedy Smith.
     Or that the little old lady running the Japanese general store on Belmont Avenue was Iva Toguri D'Aquino, the notorious Tokyo Rose, whose broadcasts from Japan during World War II were intended to undermine U.S. troop morale.
     A slight thrill to know that the woman selling you rice crackers was convicted as a traitor and served time in prison.
     That she was really innocent was a deeper secret — I didn't know; I bet most Chicagoans didn't know, not until they read her obituary last week. She was swept up in circumstances, trapped in Japan when the war broke out — an American citizen, born on the Fourth of July, surviving the war by working at a radio station. There was no one "Tokyo Rose," but a string of female broadcasters, and nobody proved that D'Aquino was one of them. But she was convicted anyway during the security hysteria of the late 1940s and sent to prison for six years.
     Six years.
     Her story would be trivia if it did not echo today. If there were not thousands of new Iva Toguri D'Aquinos rotting in prisons because they, too, were swept up by circumstances at a time, like the postwar period, when fear overwhelms our devotion to our most cherished ideals. If we were not willing to do vile things to protect ourselves, willing to throw innocent people into prison for years until they are eventually released, accused of nothing, convicted of nothing.
      It is a legacy that will plague our children. They will wonder how we could have allowed this. We'll claim that we didn't know. But we do know. D'Aquino, once convicted a traitor, in death performs a great service to our country by reminding us. If only we will listen.

WE'VE ALL GOT A SPARE

     Vasilios Gaitanos and his wife, Dimitra, show up on the 10th floor for their appointment, as instructed, to check in with the guard. Usually I'd have them sent down to the ninth floor, but Vasily is older, and ill, and hurrying up to greet them seems the thing to do.
      I'm rewarded by watching Vasily guide his wife downstairs, to my office. A gentle touch. A whispered "ena, thio, tria" -- "one two three," in Greek — as they reach the bottom of the escalator.
      She is blind — blinded in a car crash 11 years ago. But they are not here about her. They are here about him. Vasilios Gaitanos' kidneys are failing. He has been on dialysis for three years.
     He used to play piano in the old Denny's Den, if you remember the sprawling Greek restaurant and club on Broadway. He doesn't play much anymore.
      "Now I'm looking out for only health," he says.
      Vasily, 61, has beaten cancer three times. He has just passed the two-year cancer-free period required before he can be put on the waiting list for donor kidneys.
     Dialysis is a stopgap — I didn't realize that before meeting him. It only approximates the miracle of the kidneys, only imperfectly filters the poisons that build up in your blood. So while on dialysis, your systems breaks down — particularly your heart, and Vasily already has had heart valve trouble.
      The average wait for a new kidney in Illinois is five years. Without a kidney, Vasily will probably die before then.
      The couple are in my office because their friends think — hope, pray — that maybe, if I write about him, then somebody would step forward and give Vasily a kidney.
     This is not in keeping with my understanding of how people operate though, I admit, that if you were going to donate a kidney to a stranger, then Vasily is the sort of man you want to donate your kidney to.
      "He's a very likeable man," says cardiologist and long-time friend, Dr. Maria Balkoura. "Everybody in the Greek community knows him and loves him."
      How likeable? I held my breath when I asked him his blood type, and was relieved to hear it is O+, because I'm A+, and I was worried, watching him dote on his wife, that I'd end up giving him my own kidney.
     I can see how it would be tempting. A person only needs one kidney to get by, and giving one to Vasily might give him another 20 or 30 years instead of two or three.
      Watching him tenderly squire his wife out of my office — did I mention that he is also losing vision from the dialysis? — I realized that such an act would not save just one life, but two.

MIRACLES DO HAPPEN

     Kidney ailments are complex, and rather than rely on Vasilios' understanding of the subject, I thought it prudent to also speak with Dr. Susan Hou, chief of the renal transplant program at Loyola University Medical Center in Maywood.
      She said that Loyola's waiting list has 594 people on it, that 12,000 kidneys become available each year, nationwide, while 65,000 people need them. Dying while waiting for a kidney is all too common.
     We spoke for a long time, about the dynamics of the waiting list — children under 11 get preference. We spoke about the logistics of kidney transplants — the hardy little organs are good for up to 24 hours outside of the body.
     I was almost off the phone when I thought to ask her: level with me — does Vasily have a chance? Do people ever donate their kidneys to strangers?
     "There are some amazing stories," she said. "One woman mentioned it to a neighbor at a block party, and that neighbor gave her a kidney. Sometimes a stranger will call and want to give a kidney to anyone who needs it."
     Really? I asked, incredulous. People are really that generous?
      "I've given my kidney to somebody I didn't know," she said, as matter-of-fact as can be.
      It was three years ago. A patient of hers needed a kidney. Dr. Hou thought she might be a match, and she was. So miracles of kindness do occur. Maybe one will occur for Vasilios Gaitanos and his wife Dimitra. I sure hope so.

Today's chuckle

     This sharp line, from Kathleen Norris, is quoted in Only Joking by Jimmy Carr and Lucy Greeves:
     In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular.

      — Originally published in the Sun-Times, Oct. 1, 2006

16 comments:

  1. Did Mr. Gaitanos receive a kidney? I certainly hope so.

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  2. So sorry about your cousin Harry. Did Vasilios ever find a miracle?

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    1. He did, in his wife — I added it above. Thanks for the reminder.

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  3. I remember Iva and her shop on Belmont. Thanks for the reminder that she was innocent.

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  4. I forgot to offer condolences for your cousin...may he rest in peace.

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  5. So sorry for your loss, Mister S. Your cousin sounded like a really nice guy.
    It's tough when cousins pass. My wife and I have lost a few in recent years.

    You did him a big mitzvah (a good deed) when he needed it most.
    That's what mispocha (family members) do.

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  6. Anybody attend one of the rallies downtown this weekend?

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  7. I'm so sorry to hear about your cousin.

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  8. First of all, let me express my sympathy to you. Never knew that dialysis could affecte the heart.

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  9. I got checked out to see if I matched my uncle for kidney donation. his son gave him one. he lived 12 years longer.

    neil, are you against the federal government arresting anyone, ever for anything? people do commit crimes. get rid of statutes? get rid of law enforcement?

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    1. Normally, I don't publish comments of people projecting stupid opinions on others and then pretending they ever suggested anything remotely like that. But in your case I made an exception, so I can ask: What have I ever written that would make you ask that?

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  10. You wrote that Iva Toguri though convicted of treason was a victim . While that may be. You conflated her arrest with that of thousands rotting in prisons back in 2006 due to the security states fear of what I'm not exactly sure. All of whom you assume would be tried and convicted without evidence like her.

    You often refer to the current administration's efforts to arrest and deport people who've come here illegally as some type of similar operation where people aren't actually guilty of anything but the federal government arrests them and throws them out of the country.

    You don't want the federal agencies to come here to Chicago and do the same thing. They're just seems to be some type of assumption on your part that the federal government arrests people for having done nothing and that if we let this continue to happen the next thing you know they'll be coming for the rest of us.

    Who should the federal government be arresting? anybody? Your point of view has been repeatedly expressed that our current government is made up of fascists that arrest people who don't deserve it for having done nothing.

    While this is not a completely inaccurate reading of the situation from the past and currently, the question is are you okay with the federal government arresting anybody ever for anything and if so who?

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  11. Man Tom, you're sodden with that Kool-Aid. A lot of the people being deported now came here legally, as refugees, applied for asylum, and were going through the process when they were arrested at a court date by ICE. I think you're trying to have it both ways — to believe the Fox News spin, while slipping in the idea "that our current government is made up of fascists ... is not a completely inaccurate reading of the situation." I don't really write for people who are such a ball of confusion. As for your questions, I will defer to the great cham, Samuel Johnson: "I have given you an argument, sir. I am not also obligated to give you an understanding."

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  12. Sorry to hear about your cousin. I'm glad you made the time to help out last year, when family assistance was needed. Sometimes 'showing up' is all we can do, but thankfully, 'showing up' is what's remembered and appreciated.

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  13. Some people -many millions-came here illegally and have been here for a long time have children that are citizens own property and work without authorization. They've paid taxes lived according to the law and worked towards gaining status for permanent residency.

    They should be granted a path to citizenship but because the amnesty granted by Congress decades ago included a provision that no future amnesties would be granted they are pretty screwed.

    Some people were brought here very young by their parents and fell into DACA. a presidential order not backed by law so they are in limbo.

    Many refugees came here under temporary status which can and in many cases has been rescinded.

    Some folks overstayed their visa , student , travel and temporary workers .

    Lots of reasons people came and stayed.

    Some crossed the border brought by smugglers.

    Some people applied to immigrate waited were notified they could come and given a green card. They waited a long time.

    This situation is very messy.

    Should there be another amnesty?
    Probably.
    Will there be? probably not .

    There have been hundreds of thousands of people deported yearly by many different administrations. They were not obnoxious about it and were letting as many new undocumented people in as we're being expelled

    At least now people have stopped coming .
    Maybe we can have a more orderly system in place soon.
    For now if everyone including the current administration would follow the law things will improve.

    I doubt it.

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