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Bob Israel |
We are the architects of our own happiness. Or sorrow. I think we forget that. It's too easy to offload responsibility for our lives onto fate, circumstance, others. To sit on your hands and complain. If you don't like what's going on right now, get busy and change it.
I'm thinking of Monday morning. I'd been working for a couple hours, but hit a wall. It was about 9:45 a.m. I looked up, a little stunned, to find myself sitting at a desk, writing stuff. How did this happen? This is where working in a place with other people would be helpful. You could get up, get coffee, wander over and talk to one of those other people.
But I work alone. I groped to think of someone to call, but came up empty.
Drifting over to Facebook — which gets a bad reputation, but definitely has its uses — I noticed Bob Israel, a Northbrook trustee I'd met once after a recent village board meeting. He'd posted a photo of himself in a beekeeper's mask. Plus a trio of honey jars with homemade labels.

"I have honey — I’m home today," he wrote. "Does anyone want to stop by and pick up a jar (or three)?"
Posted 11 minutes earlier.
Why the heck not?
I grabbed $15 and the car keys. Google Maps told me Bob and his hives were a five minute drive or ... a 10 minute bike ride. I hopped on the old Schwinn. Always choose the more strenuous option. Riding a bike helps.
Bob has several hives and about 125,000 bees in his back yard. He's been keeping bees for about five years.
"The neighbors were initially freaked out," he said. "But then they realized their gardens have been better than ever. One of my neighbors took out all his grass and put in flowers."
That's true — he'd replaced a section of back lawn with bee balm, daisies and other bee friendly flowers, a gorgeous tableau.
"I started keeping bees because of my concerns about the environment and desire to be more restorative than destructive," he said. "As I took classes and started to learn more about the bee's social structures and began working with the bees, I found it to be both mind-calming and to benefit the flora in my neighborhood — so, effectively my reward is found in a bit of clearing of my mind and a multitude of blooming flowers.
I stood before the hives, admiring them, and Bob directed me off to the right, "out of their flight path." There being nothing flowery about myself, the bees ignored me entirely, as they did Layla, Bob's dog, who practically was jamming her nose into the swarm.
My admiration for bees was sparked in part by Virgil's Georgics, which includes a parody of battles in Iliad, fought by bees, whom he calls "stout warriors in their waxen kingdoms."
Bob refers to his bees as "the girls," which I liked very much. I told him I knew this is correct gendering, as most bees in a hive are female.
"There's some drones," he said.
After 10 or 15 minutes I paid $15 for a pound of honey — the money goes to a worthy charity. Bob wrapped it carefully in a sheet of styrofoam, I put it in my bike basket and donned my helmet. A car pulled into the driveway and a man stepped out.
"If you're here for honey, you've come to the right place," I said, and rode away.
The sunny, summery morning certainly looked better than it had less than an hour earlier. I got back to the house, broke out the honey and dipped a spoon in. It tasted excellent: fresh and light. A reminder: the sweetness is always out there, waiting. Sometimes you have to get off your duff and go find it, that's all.
If you too are in bicycle distance, and want to arrange a honey pick up, you can contact Beekeeper Bob at bobisrael@sbcglobal.net
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"Stout warriors in their waxen kingdoms." |
Luv the blog today! In other words, “Bee the change you want to be!”
ReplyDeleteWhat a happy way to start the morning. I’m constantly amazed at how you notice and appreciate the smaller occurrences and help us appreciate them!
ReplyDeleteWe either make ourselves miserable or happy. The amount of work is the same.
ReplyDeleteYES!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad that you're supporting a good guy doing a good thing and using the proceeds to do more good things. But "Facebook — which gets a bad reputation, but definitely has its uses"? I wish people would stop waving away the damage Zuckerberg is doing. If we stop supporting them, they can do less harm. (Note: I quit Facebook in 2018. I quit almost all social media over the past couple years. I'm on one platform now. Bluesky. It's plenty.)
ReplyDeleteI'm with you regarding X — I deleted the app. While Zuckerberg is certainly salaaming before the orange enormity, I don't think Facebook has deteriorated the same way. We also pay U.S. taxes. The answer isn't always taking your ball and going home.
DeleteI deleted X before it was X.
DeleteI still hang around Facebook when I have the time, which is almost every day.
Facebook does have uses. I’m in a group for our town, and recently posted a question asking for comments re senior living facilities. I was overwhelmed with the compassionate, helpful responses, some DMing me with their phone #s for more info. In no other way could I have gathered so much info. Warmed my heart!
DeleteBirds tweeted. I didn't. Never started. Didn't see the need for it.
DeleteSo I didn't wind up having to X it out of my life (or to ex-it from it).
And, of course, I felt the same way about Farcebook. Resisited the siren call of the Motherzuckers for fifteeen years. Didn't join until '21, during the Plague years. Turned my wife's dormant account into a hyphenated ("shared") one. People HATE that. Why, I don't know. Now I'm asked "Who cheated?" at least once or twice a week. Shows you the typical Fecesbook mentality.
Found Fakebook to be useful for conversing with like-minded hobbyists and nostalgia junkies, and to bitch about Trump. But administration and moderation are now down to the bare minimum...probably so that the cultists and the sheeple can "own the libs" with impunity.
Worse still, the platform is now infested and overrun by scammers and fakers and data-miners, who use AI text and images, stolen photos, and plagiarized comments. These bots seem to be mainly Asian in origin, from places like Indonesia and Bangladesh. Doing their damndest to pass themselves off as Ohioans or Chicagoans. And nobody is doing anything about these overseas jamokes.
Fightbook has less usability and reliability...and more manufactured, fraudulent, bogus bullshit...every goddamn day. And yet, it has become as addictive to me as cigarettes once were. I spend far too much time at the keyboard, in front of my screen. Even though I know that the hate and the anger are toxic, and probably life-shortening. Just like smoking. Is there a mutual-aid recovery outfit called Facebook Anonymous?
I agree. Too many people still cling to the few good aspects of Facebook. if it weren't for Facebook, we wouldn't have X today. We might not even have the current government regime. Facebook changed how information was proliferated and created a way to target individuals of anything they wanted. And on top of that, they refuse to police what goes on and have allowed false narratives, lies, and foreign nations influence our polotics.
DeleteWhile there is good that Facebook does, the only thing it should do is relieve zukerberg of his money.
A very sweet start to the day. There are many takeaways... not just honey. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteI saw the title of today's column and thought, "Ah! William Blake!". I then checked to see if I was correct. But before I could feel smug about it, I also noticed the context of his quote was not what I expected. More searching. Turns out I conflated the Blake proverb with Isaac Watts' poem, "How doth the little busy bee improve each shining hour". Boo. Now I'm starting my day with a miss.
ReplyDeleteOn a brighter note, I really enjoy the photo of the native flowers at the top of the page. I also liked the photo of blooming Joe Pye Weed the other day.
Sweet. The honey, the photos, the column, and the Virgil quote. A lovely start to our day.
ReplyDeleteI love hearing about the establishment of native flowers, like bee balm! I am on the Board of Hackmatack National Wildlife Refuge, and we try to spread the word about pollinators and how important they are to our very survival. Doug Tallamy, an incredible advocate & author, promotes the idea of a Homegrown National Park, which is the idea that if all of us just plant even a small section of pollinator plants, it could greatly impact biodiversity.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a ten minute bike ride away, but something tells me two hours on a bike is still well worth it for quality, local, honey.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad the FB algorithm presented you with a fun and productive nudge to get busy and create some happiness for yourself. Local fresh honey; the best. And coincidental that today's email from a former colleague who has been group-sending a quote of some sort weekly for 25+ years was this: The way you choose to see the world creates the world you see. (Attributed to Barry Neil Kaufman)
ReplyDeleteI was expecting to see a cross-stitched sampler illustrating the title quote.
ReplyDeleteI haven't entirely abandoned Facebook, but I'm looking at it about once every 2-3 months, and I am generally a happier person for it. I do miss some of the baby pictures and some of the travel photos, but not much else.
I'm getting off my lazy, fat ass now. Heading to the pantry for some honey. Enjoy the day, thanks Neil...John Howell
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