Tuesday, December 30, 2025

'In conclusion, it is important to note that AI will play a crucial role...' — The State of the Blog 2025:

Daley Plaza, March 7, 2025


     This blog debuted on July 1, 2013. For its first decade, I would present a "State of the Blog" around the actual anniversary, usually the last day of June.
     But this year, as June melted into July, I was in New Jersey, helping my older son move his young family down the coast, and didn't feel like picking through the past year. So I just skipped it. No one noticed.
     Beside, I do pretty much the same thing at New Year's, marking the end of the calendar year, and I figured: once a year is plenty. Maybe even too much.
     You don't need me to tell you that 2025 seemed fairly grim. The return of a liar, bully, fraud and traitor to the White House when he really should be in prison. Elon Musk's giddy defacement of the federal government. Masked thugs seizing people on the street based on the color of their skin. 
The normalization of an administration of infamy that we should never feel comfortable about, not until it is gone and history. Not even then.
     On the personal front, a series of losses, beginning with my mother in June, then my cousin Harry in September. Sister Rosemary. Lori Cannon. Tony Fitzpatrick. As bad as that is, it seemed a foretaste: the people you love are going to go, one by one, and then, eventually, your turn. I mean, "my turn." 
     Not a lot of gas in the tank to pick over a years worth of column. But plodding forward is something I do well — God knows I've had practice — and now that I've done my picking, I'm glad. Because honestly, when I look back on the past year, unaided, it all blends into a uniform buzz. But actually rambling through the entries, I do find pieces that make me feel ... well, proud would overstating the case. More like "Satisfied that I'm not completely wasting your time, and mine."
     Five point three million views over the past year. Though if we discard those outside the United States, all bots for sure, it falls to 1.6 million. About 4,500 actual readers a day. That sounds about right. Small ball, social media wise. Kim Kardashian gets 5,000 hits in a minute for coughing into her fist on Instagram
     But if 4,500 people were gathered in an auditorium, waiting to hear what I say, that would seem a considerable crowd, and I would show up and choose my words carefully.
      Enough. What were the highlights?
     In January, I presented a surprisingly moving visit to Cooperstown, 'No crying in baseball'? There is if you visit the Hall of Fame.
     February, a story that began about volunteers who sit in court as silent witnesses during pet abuse trials, turned into one gripping case of animal cruelty: "Oh my God! It's a dog! It's alive!"
     In March, I thought to compare a fictional TV gay fire fighter with the real thing and mirabile dictu —the CFD actually cooperated, itself a noteworthy occurrence.
     In April, after Illinois comptroller Susana Mendoza put out a video urging Chicagoans to go to Little Village, to make up for locals afraid to leave their homes, we sat down to dinner together to talk about the situation.  
     In May, the founder of Facebook announced that most Americans have fewer than four friends, and offered to sell them some AI buddies. I mused on real friendship in "Mark Zuckerburg wants to sell you new AI friends."
     In June, Chicago said goodbye to Sister Rosemary Connelly, whose life I was proud to outline. 'She saw our kids as people, not as disabilities.' 
     July found me in Washington with my new granddaughter. I looked at the capital of a nation renouncing its basic values, with DEI at DC memorials ripe for purging.
     August was goodbye to Lori Cannon, tireless 'AIDS angel,' dead at 74: 'She took care of the whole universe'. I also spun a hike in Rocky Mountain National Park into a rumination on humanity in What if crowds don't have to spoil the view.
     September, I was back in Washington, talking to the National Guard: At least the Washington Monument is safe. And when the guard arrived in Chicago, I wrote a front page story recounting Chicago's long history as a battleground for federal troops.
     October I turned the dullest bit of history ever into a front page story: Erie Canal, the ditch that made Chicago great, marks its 200th birthday
     November, the blog continued to support those our government is lashing out at: People still exist even if the Trump administration refuses to see them.
     In December, a rare bit of satire, mocking YouTube sleep videos: Can't sleep? Don't count sheep — use this guided meditation for healthful snoozing.
     Thanks seem in order. First to all the regular commenters, particularly those who point out errors without trying to make sense of them. "When you write 'hte,' do you mean the Norwegian surname, or did you misspell 'the'?" 
     To my wife, for bearing up under this odd obsession of mine. To Charlie Meyerson, for regularly amplifying this blog on his Chicago Public Square. To Marc Schulman, at Eli's Cheesecake, for supporting this blog from the very beginning. If you haven't clicked on their ad, gone to their enticing website and bought a cheesecake, well, I don't see how you can live with yourself.
    My world got smaller, colder and darker this year, with the exception of one glorious grandchild, which, when she's within sight, banishes all other considerations. 
     I complain a lot, as is my nature, but I still love writing this. Love writing just about anything, really. The buzzing cloud of life's concerns falls silent, and it's just me tapping away for a few hours, turning out another one of these things. That people also read them and get something out of them, well, icing on the cake.
    How did Norma Desmond put it? 
     "You see, this is my life. It always will be. There's nothing else. Just us. And the cameras. And those wonderful people out there, in the dark."
     Gloria Swanson was 51 when "Sunset Boulevard" was released. I'm 65. Tick tock.

56 comments:

  1. Keep on truckin', Mr. S.

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  2. Neil, rest assured that it is never a waste of our time reading you every goddamn day. This is typically the first thing I read every morning. I look forward to seeing what new thing I am going to learn about or what different perspective I may look at an issue with. Thank you!

    P.S. Grandchildren are the best!

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  3. My boyfriend reads you in Scotland and wanted me to reassure you he's not a bot.
    I'm glad you still love writing the blog. Thank you for being there every goddamn day.

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    1. Thanks Joyce. I don't have a lot of Scottish content, but tell your boyfriend there was a review of Boswell's Journal of a Tour of the Hebrides: https://www.everygoddamnday.com/2016/10/such-storm-of-vulgar-force-books-on.html

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    2. Any mention of the Hebrides still brings a smile to my grizzled old face.
      In my younger days, and for far too long, I thought they were the "He-brides."
      There's joke material there, but in these times, it's untouchable.

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  4. You are and always will be insightful concerning life. Keep it up!

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  5. My birding friend Jill A introduced me to your blog and I am so thankful. I love your perspective, the topics you cover, and the emotions you evoke. We need this now more than ever.

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  6. I start my day with your blog and when it isn't in my email from overnight, I get impatient. I'm not always interested in the subject you choose .. baseball comes to mind .. but I know there will be something soon, probably the next day. Keep writing and I'll keep reading. And occasionally commenting.

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    1. Yeah, that baseball column surprised me too. Not too much sports though. Thanks for writing.

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    2. Loved the baseball column. Hoped to make my second visit to the BBHOF in the spring of 2025. Alas, the weather was mostly lousy. May of '26 might be better. My first visit was in 1993, and after more than three decades, I have to admit I don't remember too much about what I saw. Nothing really sticks out in my memory except the plaques themselves. They are a SHRINE.

      After a third of the century, there have undoubtedly been some big changes to the place. Looking forward to seeing them. And upstate New York is always a road trip worth taking.

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  7. Kim has bodacious tatas!

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    1. Is that it? I always thought it was her stupendous heinie that was the real lure.

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    2. The best, or at least the biggest, money can buy. I'd stay anonymous, too, with a comment like that.

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  8. Always a pleasure, sir.

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  9. You are a wonder. Love spinning on this planet with you.

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  10. I am happy to be one of 4500!

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  11. Nice summation. thanks.

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  12. I didn’t recognize several titles from your list. And I thought I read this every god damn day! Thanks for the links. By the way I did read them, just didn’t recognize the titles. The opening pictures were engraved in my mind, the stories too. Titles..not so much.

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  13. Neil - My day starts with a cup of tea and EGD. No matter what happens the rest of the day, I know I will have at least one experience of reflection and insight to carry me through the day. Our lives have had parallels that make your column even more relatable for me, two sons, lovely daughters in law, the recent joy of grand children. Then there is our mutual astonishment that a racist, misogynist, sadistic, narcissistic, authoritarian, capital assaulting imbecile could get into power, undermine our democracy, monetize his position at the expense of the populace, and be protected by the Supreme Court and his party's elected officials and an opportunistic media. Thank you, thank you, thank you for being a rare journalist who regularly shines a light on this awful man and his enablers.

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  14. Apropos of nothing, I have just starting reading “The Last Detective” (1976-ish) by Leslie Thomas. “Dangerous” Davies, the protagonist, also has a dog named Kitty. Coincidence, inevitability, or literary allusion regarding yours?

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    1. Kitty is indeed a literary allusion, burt not to Leslie Thomas. We had two cats, Anna and Vronsky, the lovers in "Anna Karenina." They lived to be almost 20. Then we got a new cat, named him Hercules, after the Elton John song, and he died after a year. So when we got a dog, a return to Tolstoy seemed in order. The other couple is Kitty and Lev. Well, we couldn't name her "Lev." Hence "Kitty."

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    2. My sister had a dog named Kitty.She was named after Miss Kitty on Gunsmoke. I believe Steven Weber has a dog named Cat. I follow Steven Weber for the same reason I read your blog. You love Chicago, warts and all. Chicago’s defiance of the Border Patrol goons is one of the good 2025 things.

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    3. My wife always wanted a kitty, but she had serious allergies.
      She went to Dr. Daugherty, who fixed her up and gave her shots.
      Her first cat was named for him. She had a cat named Daugh.

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  15. Welp, as I age and my carbon-based friends start to shuffle into the void maybe Zuck's deal of cyber friends isn't so bad. Heck, you're kind of a cyber friend at that ;)
    Happy New Year, Neil! Your writing is something to look forward to every day.

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    1. The AI friendship story was a keeper. Friends and shrinks and even romantic partners replaced by bots? Sick. Zuck is one sick puppy, and he's mainly obligated to his shareholders. A future with avatars, rather than Real Life friends and lovers, would help his bottom line--and little else.

      Bots can't help you move--or help you hide a body at 3 AM. And when you become...um...lonely...at 3 AM...bots can't...um...kiss you back. Or help you meet other urgent needs. You'll still have to handle that job by yourself. Sorry, Zuck...


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  16. I may not comment as frequently as I used to, but I still read every gosh darn day. I find my social media involvement has dwindled quite a bit. Perhaps the birth of my own twin grandchildren a few years ago is a factor!

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  17. I read your blog with my morning coffee. It's always interesting; little known history, remarkable people, political commentary. And the semi-regulars like Grizz and Clark Street add entertaining info and viewpoints. Thanks for plugging it out every day.

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    1. Just keep on trucking my cargo of info and viewpoints here almost every goddamn day, so not sure about the "semi" prefix. Comment far more often than not and only skip a day (or even two) for illness, or busy-ness, or a road trip.

      'Tis a rare day indeed when Our Proprietor chooses a subject or a topic that does not hold my interest. Have learned a plethora of stuff here. And when 2027 arrives, and Mister S finally hangs up his spikes, his departure will leave a large hole in my daily routine.

      Very few blogs like EGD still survive, and that is a sad commentary...nyuk nyuk...on what we've become. Losing a friend to Covid, during the Plague Years, also meant losing his blog--which had survived for almost two decades.

      Around the time of the Gatsby-esque nuptials in Michigan (summer of '24), Mister S revealed that The Grizz was the favorite commenter of one of his new daughters-in-law...and of her spouse as well. And that they read my comments...well...regularly. Was honored and flattered.

      Then a couple of other commenters chimed in, naming The Grizz as the best responder here, which still totally floors me. Because I'm not and never have been. Maybe third. Or even fourth. At best. And I'm certainly no Mister S.

      Thanks for the recap and the links. Here's to another year of life...and of EGD. And hopefully, many more after this one. L' chaim, boychik, and zei gesunt.

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    2. I'd like to withdraw the qualifier "semi-regular". Happy New year Grizz.
      I'd also like to apologize for omitting Jackash in my list of contibutors.
      Off to bed.

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    3. Well, that's a pleasant surprise. Regular, semi-regular, occasional, whatever -- it's usually a swell comment section with views from many folks. Thanks, Terry!

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  18. Thank you for the recap, the retrospect, and the writing.

    I have enjoyed them all.

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  19. Thank you Neil for the privilege of allowing us to delve into your thoughts. Happy New Year!

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  20. Your blog is always interesting and informative, Neil. Thank you for continuing it for our benefit, even though you think it's for yours.

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  21. “ Though if we discard those outside the United States, all bots for sure…” As a Canadian (who also followed you on the other site): ouch!

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    1. No insult intended. I was thinking of the millions of Chinese hits. I know Canadians read because of how upset they get if I tweak them even mildly.

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  22. Mr. S please let me post a big huzzah for your "sponsor" Eli's Cheesecake. My wife and I sent samplers to my two out of town brothers in AZ and semi-rural Illinois. There was a delivery issue with the Illinois gift that was not Eli's fault but they made two more attempts to get it to him successfully. Excellent customer service! And very tasty cheesecake.

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  23. I begin my day by reading your blog, and follow with the New York Times.

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  24. The serendipity of finding out what you'll present here E G D remains quite appealing, as 4,500 or so lucky folks are well aware.

    I recall a couple things from the early days. At some point, you wondered if the quality of your writing might be slipping a bit because of the steady volume that you produce. As everybody here would note, such has never been the case.

    Also, I think you used to say that you didn't write about politics much -- partly because you weren't all that interested, and partly because so many other people cover that ground. Alas, our country is in a terrible crisis, whether anonymous commenters here, Republican Congressional toadies, or craven Supreme Court justices deign to acknowledge the fact, or not.

    You've certainly done your part to adroitly address the situation, which has been welcome, indeed, since so much of the media is complicit in normalizing what has been far from normal. Dennis Fisher outlined the nature of the abominations and corruption well, so I won't bother, but I appreciate that you've used your talents to oppose the current regime as often as you have.

    That being said, the slice-of-life posts and columns are delightful respites in the midst of being swept away by the ongoing torrent of atrocities perpetrated by the orange felon and his disgusting enablers. My wife had a project, as many seem to, of reading an entry from Samuel Pepys' Diary each day. I consider checking in here to be a more enjoyable version of that, since EGD unfolds in the present time, is so much more relevant, and one has the opportunity to address the esteemed author... Plus, you're a much better writer, of course!

    Though I'm sorry for what a rough stretch you've personally had to endure, congratulations on another fine year of producing the blog, NS.

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  25. Thank you for writing this every day and the commentors that keep the story going throughout the day.

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  26. I enjoy your essays even when I don’t comment, Neil. You’re making a difference.—Joanie Wimmer

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  27. Just a couple of random thoughts. First of all, I had been reading your newspaper column for years, but this blog is very special. I admit, a lot of the time, some of your writing and some of the comments go over my head a bit, but that's a good thing, makes me think. But watch out, because Grizz seems highly insulted to be called a semi regular. Think he's angling to share the byline. And if we had the option to "like" a comment, the Kim Kardashian exchange above would have gotten one. Never thought I would see that. And it's a shame you can't write about your granddaughter. Just the little snippets here and there make me sure that writing would be some of your best, and show a whole different side of Neil Steinberg, for sure. Happy New Year

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    1. The Kim Kardashian exchange should be TOO surprising. There is a post on here somewhere called, "Some thoughts on Kim Kardashian's ass" (one of my favorite headlines; pity the paper wouldn't run it).

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    2. There was a short period of time a few years ago when you could put “lardass” into an email and it would be audio corrected to Kim Kardashian.

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    3. Put "Some thoughts on Kim Kardashian's ass" into the search box and bootied it up. Viola! Ran on 11-17-2014. And if Grizz seems highly insulted to be called a semi-regular, he's not. It was just a bit of jokey banter.

      Byline, shmyline...there's no way in hell I could ever do what Mister S does here every goddamn day, let alone for decades at the Sun-Times. Would have pissed somebody off up in the front office and been history within a matter of months. Maybe a year. Two, tops.

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    4. Here's where the union comes in. I'm sure they would have jettisoned me long ago if they didn't have to build a paper trail (and now EGD is a significant source of clicks to the web site, and that must help). Heck Grizz, you have your own fans, particularly my older daughter-in-law, who asks about you. Most people are noticed for bad reasons —remember Jerry B? I recently deleted a batch of comments by Sanford. I just got sick of his far leftie bullshit, and he finally went away.

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    5. Wasn't he here until just recently? Thought I saw his comments, but that might have been in old columns, when I clicked on all the links today.

      Don't really remember Jerry B...I wasn't around yet. Got "You Were Never In Chicago" for Christmas a decade ago--but didn't read my first EGD until the day after the 2016 election. And was hooked. Like with cigarettes at age 13.

      And then I lurked for a year, to learn what not to do, and how not to piss you off. Which means it's only been eight years of Grizz. Just SEEMS longer.

      Seven comments in a day. Might be a record. Happy New Year, Mister S.

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  28. Keep tapping, cutting through the buzzing, turning out your must-read things which, in their way, are uniquely raw, challenging, shaming, inspiring, pleading, interesting an$ often just WoW! Thank you, shine your light on 2026’s highs, lows, odds and what’s!? - Bob Saigh, not Anonymos

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  29. You have such an amazing use of words. It's a joyous pleasure to read your daily posts. Sometimes I don't get to read them right away, but I do read them. I even have a folder on my computer where I keep some that are most meaningful to me. Keep doing what you are doing.
    Hopefully the in new year He Who Shall Not Be Named and his toadies will no longer be in a position to destroy our country. Remember, there are a little over 300 days until the 2026 midterm elections.

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  30. Happy New Year to you and your family. Grandkids are the best! Love reading your blog and enjoy the comments!

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