Friday, November 11, 2016

Twelve things to do before you kill yourself














  

   The volume of calls to suicide prevention hotlines doubled Wednesday, as blue Americans tried to wrap their heads around the fact that the United States of America had elected an ignorant, cruel bigot as president. And I admit, just the words “Rudolph Giuliani, attorney general” are enough to make a guy want to jump off a tall building.
     Not to joke about something so serious — unless joking helps, then go for it. The bottom line is, if you’re plunged into despair by the election results, then you’re also the kind of person our country needs most. Stick around, now it gets really interesting. Toward that end, I offer a dozen activities for those who might be thinking about ending it, or for anyone gaping in horror at this week’s alarming turn of events.
     1. Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-8255, if you’re genuinely suicidal. They have a special line for veterans, and also take calls in Spanish.
     2. Call your friends. You may not be contemplating ending it all, yet still need bucking up. Nothing loosens a knot of dread like talking with others. When I heard of those reacting to the results by weeping, vomiting or rushing to the hospital with chest pains, my own reaction — a kind of grim numbness — didn’t seem so extreme.

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13 comments:

  1. The importance of Item 2 can not be overstated. If you're unsure who to call or talk to, a good start would be practitioners of the latter part of Item 6. As an aside the administrators of Wheaton College are mocked here for good reason, but the gross incompetence, since rectified of Northern Michigan University is appalling.

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  2. thank you neil. this is important. im posting this again: http://eponis.tumblr.com/post/113798088670/everything-is-awful-and-im-not-okay-questions-to

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  3. this is important. thank you neil. im reposting that "everythingis awful and im not okay: questions to ask before giving up" its handy to have around especially now.
    http://eponis.tumblr.com/post/113798088670/everything-is-awful-and-im-not-okay-questions-to
    https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6A2F5ky9SELU0Zfd05YMEpyNUk/view

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  4. I'm following the last one, at least to the extent of not reading postmortems "explaining" the election, written by people who were so sure Hillary would win. Nor am I reading the gloating of Hillary-haters (not that I ever did read them much in the first place).

    Basically, I'm just trying to treat this as a grim joke while hoping it doesn't screw up my life personally too much.

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  5. One more thing: Remember that a majority of Americans DID NOT vote for Trump. More people voted for Clinton, but because of our arcane Electoral College system, she won't be president.

    The Electoral College was instituted in large part to mollify Southern slaveholders. I like to think of this election as their beyond-the-grave revenge.

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  6. I let my ACLU membership expire when Obama was elected. Time to become a card-carrying member again. Might help somebody avoid getting waterboarded. That's a worthy cause to anyone with a conscience who can afford it. You can donate whatever amount you are able to.

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  7. DNC- Are you listening?


    Bernie Sanders


    .You cannot be a party which on one hand says we're in favor of working people, we're in favor of the needs of young people but we don't quite have the courage to take on Wall Street and the billionaire class.

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  8. Remember the children, especially those of Hispanic and other minorities. Right now, many of them are terrified of the future, of what may happen to their families. As depressed as I was, going to work the next day to provide support to my high school students, of whom 80% are Hispanic, was more important. I reminded them that they can take comfort in that we still have the U. S. Constitution, which is more powerful than any elected official, even the president. But, I'm worried and ashamed of the increasing bigotry and harassment they'll face going forward, which has already started in some locations.

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  9. Malcolm Gladwell has gone off the deep end predicting that Trump will be jailed within a year, echoing the defiant winners such as a friend of a friend on Facebook, who intones,
    "Unless she gets a presidential pardon, I suspect we'll all learn the truth about Clinton in the coming year. I think the nation will find that collusion with the DOJ is the least of her crimes." The craziness will continue I predict.

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  10. Shared on Facebook with despairing friends--and still we rise.
    http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/still-i-rise/

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  11. I will seek solace in turning away from my computer screen, eschewing the punditry that has so led us astray, and resuming my attempt to cope with the phenomenon of so many books, so little time. A new biography of Dante and the factious, often lethal, politics of his time is getting good notices. And soon we will be in the bleak midwinter, with all the additional obstacles to easy living that season entails.

    The Obama's have been a class act, and we will now have to get used to something altogether different. Trump seems a man without principles, but that at least offers hope that he will act pragmatically. I fear more the ideologues in Congress and those he might install to run the several departments of the government.

    Tom Evans

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  12. The New York Times reports that a prominent climate-change denier is being considered to head the EPA.

    TE

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